13-14Jesus then took the bread and gave it to them. He did the same with the fish. This was now the third time Jesus had shown himself alive to the disciples since being raised from the dead.
Do You Love Me?
15After breakfast, Jesus said to Simon Peter, “Simon, son of John, do you love me more than these?”
“Yes, Master, you know I love you.”
Jesus said, “Feed my lambs.”
16He then asked a second time, “Simon, son of John, do you love me?”
“Yes, Master, you know I love you.”
Jesus said, “Shepherd my sheep.”
17-19Then he said it a third time: “Simon, son of John, do you love me?”
Peter was upset that he asked for the third time, “Do you love me?” so he answered, “Master, you know everything there is to know. You’ve got to know that I love you.”
Jesus said, “Feed my sheep John 21 The Message
I have always wondered what Peter must have felt like after he knew he let Jesus down. That glance from Jesus went down to the pit of his stomach when he realized that his big pronouncement of never letting Jesus down went down in smoke. He had failed him.
Were they ever going to clear the air? Was Christ, now that he was resurrected and in their presence, going to say anything to him? He could just zap him. He could just rail off on him. I think it is interesting that Jesus knew that the pain that Peter put himself through was enough, and he did not need to beat him up any longer. There is something about the pain of a guilty conscience that does a work on your character. The scripture says it was the third time that Jesus revealed himself to them. He had two other shots at Peter but did not take them. He did not come out of the grave with a vengeance.
He waits until dinner is over so the conversation would not mess his dinner up. He looks over at Peter and says “Do you love me?” He could have said “Do you know what you did to hurt my feelings?” Do you realize what you have done and how you let me down?” “Do you understand how that affected our relationship? I am the one that made you part of my inner circle, and you did this to show me…?” No, I think as I read this passage, Jesus in a redeeming way looked into the heart of someone that loved him but couldn’t deal with the guilt and asked the question that needed to be above all questions Do you love ME? He really did love Jesus. He had let him down. He had goofed up. His need to be restored is unbelievable. Can you see him jump from the ship and run to the one he loved?
Christ put him out of his misery. He allowed his mercy and grace to convince the young man of his deep love for him. His conversation with Peter was not as with a criminal but as friend to friend. Intimate friends do that kind of thing. Everyone in life will not like me. I cannot make everybody happy. To be truthful I find that it is truer today that I am trying to make fewer people upset at me today than yesterday. I like to be affirmed by the people around me. There are a few, however, that are absolutely essential relationships. I must know that they are all right.
It is an unbelievable experience to be restored in fellowship with someone you love. Thank God that Christ put me out of my misery. I come to him and hear him lean over beside the fire to me and says quietly, “Crooks, do you love me?” I lean back and say - “,I certainly do.” Oh the blessed relief.











