9 He burned down the Temple of the Lord, the royal palace, and all the houses of Jerusalem. He destroyed all the important buildings[g] in the city.
“Now, son, she is as pretty as she CAN be…if she could be prettier she would!” I will never forget the first time I heard that phrase. What a way to say that someone is ugly without saying that outright. What was that line I heard at a preacher’s meeting once…”I have never seen an ugly bride…however, I have seen one or two that come mighty close…”
I thought I had heard them all…
Wednesday, July 05, 2006
By MARLA A. GOLDBERG
mgoldberg@repub.com
SPRINGFIELD – Arranged marriages are an ancient tradition in India, but when a Belchertown family went there to meet a bride-to-be and judged her too ugly for the groom, they chose a 21st-century solution. They called the wedding off, and the groom’s father is now suing for damages.
Vijai B. Pandey, 60, filed a lawsuit in Hampden Superior Court last month against friends who tried to arrange a marriage between his son Pranjul K. and their niece. The Pandeys, after spending money on long-distance calls and airfare, found her much too homely.
When the Pandeys saw the bride in New Delhi last August, they were “extremely shocked to find … she was ugly … with protruded bad teeth, and couldn’t speak English to hold a conversation,” Vijai Pandey stated in the lawsuit. The woman’s complexion was also cited for the broken engagement.
It ended up in a lawsuit for @200,000.00 in damages. Now go figure!
God’s “special people” are so ugly and their lives so messed up that he sends a nation to come and destroy them. Babylonian captivity is a great classroom for the survivors of the invasion. Maybe they will learn there. However, it is as if God allows a heathen nation to come and destroy the lovely place where they have lived together. I almost shivered as I read about how they tore the temple down and took the valued precious metals. They lit the thing up and let the flames destroy it completely. WOW!
He, God, values the heart. Always has. Always does. He looks at the heart of the matter and is not so much consumed in the building that we meet in than he is the condition of the hearts that meet in the building. My skinned crawled when I read about how they destroyed the house of meeting until I remembered that the value of the house is equal to the condition of the hearts of those who dwell in the building. Character matters.
The fact that God had had enough causes me deep respect for what He says and what He is about. I am reminded that it was his House and His people. His special people had gotten awfully ugly and they were now gone. A beautiful dress (temple) is of no use when the bride is gone. A beautiful dress can never hide the ugly nature of the one wearing it. If there is no bride then there is no need for a dress.
I am also reminded that externals are of no value if the internal nature is so ugly. And God let a heathen tear it down because his people didn’t have enough sense to keep it clean.
God sued the nation of Israel for being too ugly. He won the lawsuit.